Become a Certified Facilitator: 12-Month Family Constellations Program
Master the art of systemic healing and step into your calling to facilitate profound systemic healing for others with our 12-Month Family Constellations Facilitator Certification.
Become a Certified Family Constellation Facilitator
Short intro to program mission & who it is built for . . . Learn to heal your soul and help others do the same in 12 months.
This is for you if you are:
Spiritually Curious + Open
Kind and thoughtful
Open to things and experiences you cannot necessarily explain
Seeking a group of like-minded humans
This is NOT for you if you are:
Looking for a quick fix
Not open to growing and changing
Seeking another certification to look good
Someone who does not like to be vulnerable or cry
What’s Included in your Certification
When you enroll in the 12-month Family Constellation Facilitator Program, you receive everything you need to heal, practice, and build a thriving practice:
Live Monthly Weekend Workshops (Zoom): Saturday 10am-5pm PT | Sunday 10am-3pm PT
Mitsunaga Method™ training
12-Month Comprehensive Facilitator Curriculum to support your own healing and that of your future Clesties (“client-turned-besties”)
One-of-a-kind Family Constellation Facilitator Manual
Private Student Vault with Lifetime Access (including the lecture zoom meetings)
Dedicated Peer Community of like-minded humans for support, practice, and connections to grow WITH you
Official Certificate of Completion to practice as a Family Constellations Facilitator
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What is Family Constellations?
Family and Business Constellations is a powerful experiential healing modality that uncovers invisible family patterns passed down through generations. So much of the anxiety, repeating struggle, or emotional heavy-lifting we face aren’t event ours, they actually stem from the unresolved trauma or exclusions of our family tree. By bringing realigning these hidden dynamics, it can help in your release inherited emotional burdens, break long-standing cycles, and find your rightful place in your life. Can’t waitttt to constellate WITH you soon.
Origins and Foundations
Developed by German psychotherapist Bert Hellinger in the 1990s, Family Constellations a multigenerational healing modality that synthesizes elements of systemic family therapy, phenomenology, and Indigenous community wisdom.
While living, working, and studying WITH the Zulu people of South Africa, he observed how deeply interconnected their family systems were and how collective healing relied on honoring every member of the tribe. After being WITH the Zulu people for more than a decade, he returned to Germany where he observed that modern emotional struggles often stem from violations of fundamental relationship principles - what he called the Order of Love.
The Order of Love:
The Right to Belong: Every family member has an equal right to be included. Excluded or forgotten members create imbalances that future generations unconsciously try to fix.
Order & Hierarchy: Those who cambe before have priority over those who come after (e.g., parents give, children receive).
Balance of Giving and Taking: Healthy relationships require an equitable exchange of energy and support.
Bert Hellinger further combined the work of the Zulu tribe WITH many different western therapies including Gestalt Therapy and Karl Jung’s work on archetypes.
How does Family Constellations work?
A Family Constellation session reveal the unseen dynamics by taking what is internal thinking and making it visible in real-time. Whether conducted in a group session or in an individual session, the process follows a simple yet profound flow:
Defining the Issue: You focus on a core personal challenge to work on rather than retelling your entire life story. This could be a recurring relationship failure, deep-seated guilt, any difficulty that you are currently facing. This is referred to as “the Seeker.”
Setting the Field: In a group, participants are chosen to represent members of your family, or in some cases abstract elements such as “fear”, “abundance”, “culture”, or “ancestor”, etc. In individual sessions, floor anchors or objects are used. These are referred to a “Representatives” or “Reps.”
Uncovering the Dynamics: Without script or rehearsal, representatives respond to the intuitive energy of the “knowing field.” Their positioning, physical movements, and sensations highlight where the system is blocked or entangled.
Restoring the Orders of Love: Through gentle movements, symbolic gestures, and specific healing sentences, the Facilitator (that’s me!) helps re-align the system. Previously excluded members are acknowledged, burdens are returend to their original owners, and an family of origin is restored.
The Result: You step away from the session with a profound internal shift by moving out of the unconscious loyalty to past trauma and into your own strength and present life.
Why is Family Constellations so powerful?
Like no other healing modality, Family Constellations allows us to explore and uncover hidden dynamics that we are most likely not aware we are carrying from our family or past generations for the most cathartic and powerful healing experience ever.
Why does Family Constellations work?
In today's Family Constellations sessions, you can bring in anything that you would to a therapy session or a life coaching session. You choose other people in the group to represent your family members, emotions, illnesses, or anything else that might be relevant to your constellation. Your Family Constellations Facilitator will guide you through this entire process.
What Awesome Humans like You are Saying
“I could not talk about money at all before my one group constellations session WITH Kyla.
After that one session, I was able to make deals WITH silicon valley companies, collectively invest WITH our community in high-end tea in China. I would have never been able to do this before! Everyone needs to know about Kyla and her work!”
Yshel Lok
Founder, FabulaTea
“I have done psychoanalysis and cognitive behavioral therapy for 25+ years and I have never had such an intense and powerful experience in such a short period of time as I did WITH Kyla facilitating a Family Constellations experience.
If you're looking to breakthrough some of your old stories and truly understand what's holding you back, you need to work WITH Kyla.
She is a master facilitator and brings compassion, empathy and kindness to the experience.”
Gwen Holtan
Founder, Beyond The Box Nutrition
Ahran Lee
Ahran Lee Coaching
“What I loved about the Family Constellations intensive retreat WITH Kyla was that it was this intimate cocoon. All of this is possible because of the way Kyla holds space, the way she facilitates these family constellations. There is no ego, there is no hierarchy, there is no power dynamic, and the stickiness of that in the group. She holds SO much space for each one of us to move towards what we want. There is no sense of urgency, and she encourages all of us to move at our own speed and even not move if we don’t feel like it. This is your sign. Sign up for the retreat!!”